Lauren LaRusso, LPC, LMHC on Instagram: "Many betrayed spouses intuitively know something is very wrong in their marriage long before they actually discover the affair. While their spouse is high, in a bubble of aliveness, new vitality, the rush of feelings that haven’t been felt in a long time, they are often…. Watching. Noticing. Witnessing the subtle shifts that slowly drive them farther and farther apart from their normal behavior. Expressions change. Behaviors subtly shift. Something is of